Friend..., Soul mate..a confusion do exist !!!

Good morning blog readers..!!

Friends are always the beautiful part of life, they complete the meaning of the word life, in every corner of life many get closer, few become the best part and few remain as buddies and few become the one whom we always look out for in our lives and sometimes we find our soul mates in our friends. What can be more beautiful than getting a friend who knows every thing about you as a soul mate ? That could be a best relation anyone can ever have!!

On the other side of the coin a confusion always exist whether a friend can be a soul mate or not, if the same question is posed to me i would definitely say YES it can be but depends upon the relation and the bond they have in between. Heart always oscillates between the friend and soul mate confusion.

Sometimes you feel that you are in love with that one particular friend, because they are around us all the time when you need them most, but in reality its not the love it could be just an infatuation or the feeling that is caused by the environment and sometimes the words of your friends may also motivate you to think that you are in love. There will be a small unseen gap between the love and friendship which you need to know and understand personally. You spend the time with them, you discuss all the things with them he/she starts guiding you, eventually you feel that you are falling for them.

Then here comes the actual question whether to accept it as love or stay with the tag of friends.If it was attraction and you misunderstand it to be love then you are into serious troubles, in the beginning you feel so good and you think that you are the most luckiest person in the world but the time changes the things, you feel you are mortified, less cared and you eventually break the relationship this happens when you misunderstand the infatuation as love. Love is when you can understand them , love their soul and when you can feel the freedom in your relation and that's when you can love them with all your heart. Through out the life you will meet one person who is unlike another.

If you choose to be in relationship with friends and later if you cant be in relation there may be chance of loosing the relation as friends forever, that forever can become never again. If you choose to be friends even after knowing that you can be soul mates then you mis a wonderful chance to redesign your life. But in both the cases a regret exist.

If you choose to be in love and have a break up then you feel that “life would have been more happier if we choose to be as friends”, and if you choose to be as friends even after knowing that you can be a wonderful pair then you regret that “i should have given a chance for the lifetime happiness”, it all depends upon ones life which path to be chosen, either of the things a regret do exist, one need to know which regret is better, step forward only if you feel that love and understanding exist!!

Friends can be soul mates, but you need to listen the hidden whispers of your heart know your true feelings, either you make it or just leave it !! now its time for your decisions, its your life make the best of it. It doesn't matter if you are in love are not, sometimes life continues as “BEING FRIENDS”.
signing off with lots of love..
Anu loves you all dil se...!!!

TRUST or TRUTH

Good Morning..!!

Life is a journey not a destination and at a corner of our life, we may face a particular situation whether to speak the truth or comfort our lovable one's with a lie,  just to hold the trust that they have developed towards us . Life is always at its best to throw typical situations which makes us more stronger than before.

"HURT is always needed to GROW"

Sometimes failure is needed to be successful. Life is all the mixture of of Unspeakable Secrets, Unreachable Goals, Untold Love and Irreversible Regrets. May be one can bear all the above but not the REGRET, it always pecks us from inside.

We may get into a situation, where, the truth we speak may hurt our beloved ones, the trust developed from years may breakdown, thinking to uphold the trust if we speak lie and that's where it melts us from inside for the entire life time . Heart may not let a word out of the lips but that becomes a flame inside which we need to bear for the entire life time with a fake smile on lips !!!

Just remember, Someone TRUST us because we are TRUTHFUL towards them.

On the other hand, what if we loose the trust of our loved ones..??

When someone trust us, they will surely make an attempt to understanding of what are we going through. Instead of comforting with lie. Break the silence with truth. We may see the pain in eyes of our beloved ones, but truthful effort always puts us into happiness. If they can't understand the situation then they are not meant for us.

With so many distractions and third party involvements, relationships have become tougher to maintain these days "TRUST HAS BECOME A LONG LOST WORD".

The doubts and fear of loosing our love, narrows us down from speaking truth, the other one sees this as possessiveness and gets angry. All these leads to a broken relationship. All you need is some patience, trust and being true. "If you want to gift something special just gift them your presence not the things".

People may not get all the things they wish too, but when you are pretty enough to get one such thing, hold them tight, just don't be dumb enough to let them go by surrendering to situations, fight back to get it..!!

"Just by speaking truth you may loose someone temporarily in few situations but never gain regret, which kills you daily."

DON'T MAKE YOUR SELF A PRISONER OF REGRET.

Life is always a balance between what we can and what we cannot, live a life between Effort and Surrender. It's difficult to WAIT and more difficult to REGRET. So, never give up on something easily.

Signing off today with lots of smiles.. :):)

Keep Smiling,  Keep Loving.

ANU loves you all DIL SE..!!

Show your love, instead of expressing!! Express hatred, instead of showing!!

Good Morning!!

 It’s been a pretty long time since I stroked my pen to share the feels. I was completely lost of what to share and what to express as thousands of thoughts were running through. I didn’t know whether I can share them or I need to bury them??

Some times we don’t know whether to laugh or cry upon particular situations, heart just becomes like a beach side view so pleasant to see but complicated to understand, while I was going through such feels I just felt this way….

  “I always felt that expressing is the best thing in the world because when we express our feels takes the form of actions, but as the time passed I’ve known that few things are to be shown and few are to be expressed, at times we feel that

  “We are let down by the most trusted ones and loved by the most unexpected one’s

     Few make us cry for things which we haven’t done, few ignore all our faults

     Few make us feel so nearer and the dearer ones make us feel we are no more a part of       their life

    Few leave us when we need them the most and few stick on even when we insist them to move on  ...”

What ever the world is mixture of people and one thing to be known is which hand to be held and which one to be left.

Everyone express their love, it’s not just enough what means a lot is the way you show it, little things are mattered a lot than the bigger ones, a small wish means a lot than a gift, on the other side people show their hatred, its not worth, express your hatred but do not show it. You may make people to forget of what you have spoken but not the way you made them feel. Best understand hope as “hold on pain ends” in case of difficulty. Don’t let your fears guard the heart and don’t make felicity as a lock so that no one can break through your shell. Just smile whole heartily it makes you feel better.

Show your love, instead of expressing!!

Express hatred, instead of showing!!

            Because people can forgive but not forget few things, don’t expect to be ones life instead be the favourite part of their life”

Anu loves you all dilse!!

Have great days !!

anusha bura

The Journey...meaningful shortfilm!!

Becoming a stranger...!!

Hello visitors!!

Have you ever experienced how it feels to wait for someone who can never be our’s. Just for a second, give a try with me. What if person is pushed to live with such a feel, what if he/she is left with no option other than getting rid of that person whom we like the most and also we cannot throw that feeling away from the heart.

   Remembering that one person each and every day, each second, trying to forget them is like wishing to have chilled water in a desert. At the beginning everybody seems to be special, but only few will remain special till the last sight and that one special person at times becomes the reason for tears in eyes, and those are the tears which are very special. It is hard to fly when something weighs us down, but then to we try to fly leaving everything behind just by hurting ourselves.

Unspoken words, things which are unexplained, trying to understand the silence of that one person, everything seems to be clumsy, we never understand what one feels at that point of time, we feel that the most known, the person who was very near to our heart all of a sudden becomes a stranger. The love for us in their eyes seems to be hatred for us. Our ego wins over love…little correction here, we do make our ego win to let them go, but in the layers of heart we always wish if any magic could happen and so we can stay with that person.

 We reach to a situation where we cannot share our pain with other except the one whom we try to get rid of; I always heard that the one who can hurt us is the only person who can make us smile after. But the truth is that that feeling is never explained it always dissolves in the rain which drops from the eyes. Our heart skips a beat when we heard about them from others, coz once we were too close!!

          May be my pen never stops if I go on write about this, we always get scared to be attached to others coz one day we may again break. So never give someone the satisfaction of watching you suffer. Don’t feel if you ever become a stranger to your loved ones, not only hatred but undefinable amount of love and liking also makes you a stranger. People need to understand that there is only one antidote to the above problem is that moving on!!!

Embrace your happiness!!

Anu loves you all dil se !!