Friend..., Soul mate..a confusion do exist !!!

Good morning blog readers..!!

Friends are always the beautiful part of life, they complete the meaning of the word life, in every corner of life many get closer, few become the best part and few remain as buddies and few become the one whom we always look out for in our lives and sometimes we find our soul mates in our friends. What can be more beautiful than getting a friend who knows every thing about you as a soul mate ? That could be a best relation anyone can ever have!!

On the other side of the coin a confusion always exist whether a friend can be a soul mate or not, if the same question is posed to me i would definitely say YES it can be but depends upon the relation and the bond they have in between. Heart always oscillates between the friend and soul mate confusion.

Sometimes you feel that you are in love with that one particular friend, because they are around us all the time when you need them most, but in reality its not the love it could be just an infatuation or the feeling that is caused by the environment and sometimes the words of your friends may also motivate you to think that you are in love. There will be a small unseen gap between the love and friendship which you need to know and understand personally. You spend the time with them, you discuss all the things with them he/she starts guiding you, eventually you feel that you are falling for them.

Then here comes the actual question whether to accept it as love or stay with the tag of friends.If it was attraction and you misunderstand it to be love then you are into serious troubles, in the beginning you feel so good and you think that you are the most luckiest person in the world but the time changes the things, you feel you are mortified, less cared and you eventually break the relationship this happens when you misunderstand the infatuation as love. Love is when you can understand them , love their soul and when you can feel the freedom in your relation and that's when you can love them with all your heart. Through out the life you will meet one person who is unlike another.

If you choose to be in relationship with friends and later if you cant be in relation there may be chance of loosing the relation as friends forever, that forever can become never again. If you choose to be friends even after knowing that you can be soul mates then you mis a wonderful chance to redesign your life. But in both the cases a regret exist.

If you choose to be in love and have a break up then you feel that “life would have been more happier if we choose to be as friends”, and if you choose to be as friends even after knowing that you can be a wonderful pair then you regret that “i should have given a chance for the lifetime happiness”, it all depends upon ones life which path to be chosen, either of the things a regret do exist, one need to know which regret is better, step forward only if you feel that love and understanding exist!!

Friends can be soul mates, but you need to listen the hidden whispers of your heart know your true feelings, either you make it or just leave it !! now its time for your decisions, its your life make the best of it. It doesn't matter if you are in love are not, sometimes life continues as “BEING FRIENDS”.
signing off with lots of love..
Anu loves you all dil se...!!!