hello visitors!!! I am back again with the world's most commenest feeling "hurt" today, one may not say "no" for the question " have you ever been hurted??"
Hurt always accompanies love...as far i feel...here "love" could be anykind may be brotherly love, family love or may be friendly love...the intensity of feeling remains same in each case..let me little brief " the above lines mean that tha pain depends on the way our relationship is decorated.,the way we are attached to each other.
As far we are together with one we like nothing creates gap but when we enter into the second phase of life then late meetings, delayed conversations hurts...but does it really hurts when we love someone truly?? think about it.
let me ask few questions which always relates the beautiful relations....first have answers in your mind later on you can judge about the relation .....but b sincere in answering let it be in your hear coz u need not to share ua answers ...
1. Have you ever waited for reunion after the break up?? atleast have you had any hope that you would be together one day??
2. Have you ever tried to know the truth/reason for your break up??
3. If you know the truth and are you willing to say that?? how does the situation changes if ans if yes??
4. Are you willing to learn from what happened earlier...then how would it effect your peace of mind??
Now lets make it more interesting by revealing the results......
Case 1:
if your ans is "yes" then yours is a perfect relation with a little backdrop....thinking what could be the thing lacking...its nothing but ,u need to loose your "Ego". Instead of waiting y don't you approach.
if "NO" - You feel the pain is more important than the person..but i say when you love someone truly he/she has the right to hurt you. think about it.
Case 2:
if you try to know the reason...then no longer you will be away becoz..the "love' will be the first priority.
if "no" then you are not dare enough to know that you may be wrong...you may be in such a state that you never wanna loose.....Remember winning and loosing is a part of game and achievements not in case of life and relationships.
Case 3:
well when you know the truth and if you are wrong admit it n if ua partner is wrong then feel free to explain instead of complaining. Try this express ua missing and the way you long then it really works......**if tried whole heartedly
Case 4:
if you are really willing to learn from the past...then i am sure yours will be the best relation and you can avoid conflicts....
if "no" you never care for your mistakes and relations.
Each and every question links to one another..be positive..have faith..express yourself..Pain is common in every relation but when pain given the top priority than what is the meaning of "being together" & "relationships". The person who loves you n cares fro you also has a right to hurt you...stich your heart and your love will erase the marks on the heart...
Give a chance..but never take a chance to break ..instead make it!!!
with lots of love.....
anu signing off for today!!
Wishing you all a happy day & "happy birthday" to my best buddy ...
Hurt always accompanies love...as far i feel...here "love" could be anykind may be brotherly love, family love or may be friendly love...the intensity of feeling remains same in each case..let me little brief " the above lines mean that tha pain depends on the way our relationship is decorated.,the way we are attached to each other.
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| know how is it possible to say i love u after hurting |
As far we are together with one we like nothing creates gap but when we enter into the second phase of life then late meetings, delayed conversations hurts...but does it really hurts when we love someone truly?? think about it.
let me ask few questions which always relates the beautiful relations....first have answers in your mind later on you can judge about the relation .....but b sincere in answering let it be in your hear coz u need not to share ua answers ...
1. Have you ever waited for reunion after the break up?? atleast have you had any hope that you would be together one day??
2. Have you ever tried to know the truth/reason for your break up??
3. If you know the truth and are you willing to say that?? how does the situation changes if ans if yes??
4. Are you willing to learn from what happened earlier...then how would it effect your peace of mind??
Now lets make it more interesting by revealing the results......
Case 1:
if your ans is "yes" then yours is a perfect relation with a little backdrop....thinking what could be the thing lacking...its nothing but ,u need to loose your "Ego". Instead of waiting y don't you approach.
if "NO" - You feel the pain is more important than the person..but i say when you love someone truly he/she has the right to hurt you. think about it.
Case 2:
if you try to know the reason...then no longer you will be away becoz..the "love' will be the first priority.
if "no" then you are not dare enough to know that you may be wrong...you may be in such a state that you never wanna loose.....Remember winning and loosing is a part of game and achievements not in case of life and relationships.
Case 3:
well when you know the truth and if you are wrong admit it n if ua partner is wrong then feel free to explain instead of complaining. Try this express ua missing and the way you long then it really works......**if tried whole heartedly
Case 4:
if you are really willing to learn from the past...then i am sure yours will be the best relation and you can avoid conflicts....
if "no" you never care for your mistakes and relations.
Give a chance..but never take a chance to break ..instead make it!!!
with lots of love.....anu signing off for today!!
Wishing you all a happy day & "happy birthday" to my best buddy ...
