Defined Destinies, Confused Hearts!!!

Life has become like a downward spiral for me from past few months as long as i remember. Solitude was the only asset of mine and also the one in my thoughts, lost in those thoughts of what to explain and what not, heart was waiting for the emotional revelations. For all the confusions that were running in mind, my blog has given me the best answer that is to write upon and express, which may lead to my destiny.

Restricted writings are always painful; let me not put myself in the pain of that, so started scribbling my thoughts, as i feel that writing is the only tool which I have to win the hearts.

We happen to meet many people in our path, few are just the passing clouds, few shower rains in our lives for a period of time, but only few will be entwined with us, such kind of people are the defined destinies of our lives. Few become the missed paths of life, and few get connected to you in other corners of the path that you have chosen. It's the time where you gonna decide which in turn twinkles your path apart from the hurdles, in reaching a defined destiny.

After all to achieve the above stated things, a simple initiation is needed, That’s none other than my favorite belief "expressing yourself" which leads to your destiny. We may feel that we were stupid to wave a goodbye, but sometimes a goodbye silently says that "I will wait for you to be back again". We may face the issues but that all depends on the way we solve it and the way we sort it out.

If you can find the sunshine which heals you, just stick to them, blossom in the joy of love.

Come what may but expressing is always needed. If we can't open up then the feelings are always buried under sands of felicity. It's not about getting to know about each other it's all about made for each other, Just begin the start with a word, and we can see the best thing "Being Together" with enamored hearts. Try to know the language of hearts you will be surely cherished in care. 

Dedicated to all the ones who are confused for their defined destinies and their hearts!!!

Hope people will find answers for the their hidden questions.

ANU loves you all dilse!!!

Keep smiling :) :) :)

Hope best, miracles do happen….

complicated questions have simple answers !!

Hello visitors,

A warm welcome to the place of hearts. Awe the line itself makes me feel like heaven, isn’t it? Looking out from a small window out, the weather was quite splendorous, tiny droplets falling down a hot coffee in my right hand and my left hand was busy playing with the curls that were dancing upon the face, mind was completely filled of thoughts of what to express and what to pen down, fears were guarding me so firmly and I was lacking of the idea to express. People say that when a word written with all the heart and soul it surely touches others, and yes I do believe in that and was waiting for a perfect feel to express. Left in the thoughts my phone vibration brought me back to the mechanical world from the dream land where I was; and that mechanical world gave me the perfect feel which is making me to write this. I received a message from my friend that

“Whatever you do,

Wherever you go

You’ll always need a sweet heart to care for you

Without which life has no meaning”

These lines gave me answers to no: of questions which were running in my mind. At some corner of life we always feel that something is missing out of life, how much ever we try to know but in vain it’s always left unanswered. You will have everything out there but a little thing misses which makes you feel depressed, think again may be this is your answer for missing. Needs may be different but answer is only one, may be the toughest question has a simplest answer. Feel a little, show it a little be compassionate. How much ever you may be depressed or undergo pain, if you can have a caring heart at the end you will never feel the real meaning of pain. Life will always be beautiful if one can understand you irrespective of your possessions. Find the right one, wait for your time and if you cant wait then change it let it happen!! open up your heart, raise the voice of heart,may be its waiting for the articulation.

Expressing may lead you to your destiny!! So keep loving and so smile !!

Anu loves you all dilse :)

Silent Escape !!!

Hello my dear blog walker's !!
you might have got an idea by the title for today's article. Oh , now stop thinking and love reading to know what actually it is.

          Have you ever made a silent escape outta your life?? without giving any explanation !! 

   

    you might have at some corner of your life either willingly or it just happens sometimes, as life is always at it's best to test you all the time.
   We stand at the same place, same memories, shattered, completely broken, with all the unanswered questions in our mind. we never utter a word but thoughts never let us free.
    What went wrong?  why is this happening? what was the wrong from my side, did i ever done such a blunder, as of now why did i became a stranger all of a sudden. If i was wrong then why wouldn't i know it, if that was so then why was i left behind without explanation. I could have made up myself if i could have known the reason.
                                         Why a silent escape ?? why ??

Heart races fast, with watered eyes, that's the point where we feel frozen. Heart wants to scream why me ?? why did you do this to me, but we fall short of words. Body shivers when the truth settles down slowly. All the emotions flow together making the blood passage more and more faster adding nervousness. We finally reach a stage where we should digest that we have nothing to do with their tomorrow, it's all for today no more tomorrows, no more hopes for the rest, its all theirs only theirs.

We feel fine for few seconds and the other second it feels like we are stabbed by someone. we try to get the answers in all the possible multiple choices, but nothing fits in properly. The pain of watching someone move away without reasons breaks us down, melts us from inside, but the bitter truth is that the concern for them remains the same but not shown.
   

  When all the decisions are taken together then why not the decision to be apart ? Why the hell only single person should do that, it can be mutual either bcoz it soothes. Memories blend with tears and dry, no more expectations and no more hopes as all the ropes will be untied. How ever life goes on, we move, we wander but we wait for those special flashing smiles which can glue back the broken things. Silence fills in the loneliness, it hurts a lot, the past resonates with higher frequencies , so if could be a mutual parting then it heals for some extent. silence may be beautiful expression but remember it doesn't fit into all conditions. someone is hallow and wasting their time just to find few answers, so if you wish parting makes you happier then do think why you held it too long.
      Silence Escapes are always painful, as of am considered, if you agree with me just give a second though when you wish to part, but if people can only hear you but not understand then silence is the beautiful voice.

Signing off for today...
Anu loves you all DIL Se...!!

Friend..., Soul mate..a confusion do exist !!!

Good morning blog readers..!!

Friends are always the beautiful part of life, they complete the meaning of the word life, in every corner of life many get closer, few become the best part and few remain as buddies and few become the one whom we always look out for in our lives and sometimes we find our soul mates in our friends. What can be more beautiful than getting a friend who knows every thing about you as a soul mate ? That could be a best relation anyone can ever have!!

On the other side of the coin a confusion always exist whether a friend can be a soul mate or not, if the same question is posed to me i would definitely say YES it can be but depends upon the relation and the bond they have in between. Heart always oscillates between the friend and soul mate confusion.

Sometimes you feel that you are in love with that one particular friend, because they are around us all the time when you need them most, but in reality its not the love it could be just an infatuation or the feeling that is caused by the environment and sometimes the words of your friends may also motivate you to think that you are in love. There will be a small unseen gap between the love and friendship which you need to know and understand personally. You spend the time with them, you discuss all the things with them he/she starts guiding you, eventually you feel that you are falling for them.

Then here comes the actual question whether to accept it as love or stay with the tag of friends.If it was attraction and you misunderstand it to be love then you are into serious troubles, in the beginning you feel so good and you think that you are the most luckiest person in the world but the time changes the things, you feel you are mortified, less cared and you eventually break the relationship this happens when you misunderstand the infatuation as love. Love is when you can understand them , love their soul and when you can feel the freedom in your relation and that's when you can love them with all your heart. Through out the life you will meet one person who is unlike another.

If you choose to be in relationship with friends and later if you cant be in relation there may be chance of loosing the relation as friends forever, that forever can become never again. If you choose to be friends even after knowing that you can be soul mates then you mis a wonderful chance to redesign your life. But in both the cases a regret exist.

If you choose to be in love and have a break up then you feel that “life would have been more happier if we choose to be as friends”, and if you choose to be as friends even after knowing that you can be a wonderful pair then you regret that “i should have given a chance for the lifetime happiness”, it all depends upon ones life which path to be chosen, either of the things a regret do exist, one need to know which regret is better, step forward only if you feel that love and understanding exist!!

Friends can be soul mates, but you need to listen the hidden whispers of your heart know your true feelings, either you make it or just leave it !! now its time for your decisions, its your life make the best of it. It doesn't matter if you are in love are not, sometimes life continues as “BEING FRIENDS”.
signing off with lots of love..
Anu loves you all dil se...!!!

TRUST or TRUTH

Good Morning..!!

Life is a journey not a destination and at a corner of our life, we may face a particular situation whether to speak the truth or comfort our lovable one's with a lie,  just to hold the trust that they have developed towards us . Life is always at its best to throw typical situations which makes us more stronger than before.

"HURT is always needed to GROW"

Sometimes failure is needed to be successful. Life is all the mixture of of Unspeakable Secrets, Unreachable Goals, Untold Love and Irreversible Regrets. May be one can bear all the above but not the REGRET, it always pecks us from inside.

We may get into a situation, where, the truth we speak may hurt our beloved ones, the trust developed from years may breakdown, thinking to uphold the trust if we speak lie and that's where it melts us from inside for the entire life time . Heart may not let a word out of the lips but that becomes a flame inside which we need to bear for the entire life time with a fake smile on lips !!!

Just remember, Someone TRUST us because we are TRUTHFUL towards them.

On the other hand, what if we loose the trust of our loved ones..??

When someone trust us, they will surely make an attempt to understanding of what are we going through. Instead of comforting with lie. Break the silence with truth. We may see the pain in eyes of our beloved ones, but truthful effort always puts us into happiness. If they can't understand the situation then they are not meant for us.

With so many distractions and third party involvements, relationships have become tougher to maintain these days "TRUST HAS BECOME A LONG LOST WORD".

The doubts and fear of loosing our love, narrows us down from speaking truth, the other one sees this as possessiveness and gets angry. All these leads to a broken relationship. All you need is some patience, trust and being true. "If you want to gift something special just gift them your presence not the things".

People may not get all the things they wish too, but when you are pretty enough to get one such thing, hold them tight, just don't be dumb enough to let them go by surrendering to situations, fight back to get it..!!

"Just by speaking truth you may loose someone temporarily in few situations but never gain regret, which kills you daily."

DON'T MAKE YOUR SELF A PRISONER OF REGRET.

Life is always a balance between what we can and what we cannot, live a life between Effort and Surrender. It's difficult to WAIT and more difficult to REGRET. So, never give up on something easily.

Signing off today with lots of smiles.. :):)

Keep Smiling,  Keep Loving.

ANU loves you all DIL SE..!!