u r someone special in my lifff....

Till now i ve written articles coz they gave me satisfaction and this will surely gve me more happiness than the previous one and this is my gift for the person who made my life colourful...........,my deepest feelings for her in the form of a small note.

      Those were the days wen i was unaware that the person whom i meet could become so important for me.....the best part of every ones life schooling days, memories run across the mind wen we listen to that word few bring tears even..n few bring smile on the face. the days wen we are unaware of what friendship is??? destiny is???....the one whom i met in my child life makes me feel like a child at the age of 22.The thought of her brings a smile on my face. U don't believe the starting letter of her name is middle letter of my name...which means am incomplete without her....god known thz earlier n made us together.She is quintessential for the word FRIEND.

        Well let me put on few words how oua journey started,the way destiny made us together. I was not too attached to her in my schooling, when she left the school i didn't felt like missing her but now wen she is leaving it feels like hell for me. the best quality of her i ever liked is her "individuality". so the mighty alwayzz does miracles later we were together in +2......funny n unforgettable days of my life..the most beautiful days i spent with her...may b iam wrng hea coz each n every day is special with her. Done everything together..bunking,studying...hmm even planned to puncture the princy bike.....,many of them placed their foot prints in my life but her prints are always left unwashed by the waves of my life.

    I just cant sum up my relation with her in words but am just trying to put on...we ever feel that words will be insufficient to xpress our love  iam feeling hte same right now. my heart learnt freedom in the name of her friendship, my soul experienced the purity of love in her company.one always says to have the one where u can lay on at any point of time ..she is the one for me. For my question how much i mean to you??? she simply replied my love ..my life ...as imp as the one who gave me birth...neva shared bfor but i felt like flying in the  air with flattered wings..isn't it enough for me for a life time...

     she is with me n will be in my happiness and repine situations, gave me backup raised my hopes n dreams.she is my only love..we shared on every small isses...i cant state then hea..coz they r secrets.

     the best quality of her she neva changed frm the time i met her n the thing i dont like about her is she believes everyone..suggested not to b so.friends around us neav understood oua relation completely but there r people who wanted to b like us...:)

      "we can never know u both and understand as you guys can understand about each other"....the line which i can nevr forget, told by another best Buddie of mine.

   all i can say is love u darling n i MISS YOU. time to know who is the above she.....well she is none other than the one n only Buddie Unnu...no one can replace her in my heart.

ever missing....

anUsha

        

Being alone.........

Every time we may not be surrounded by people but our thoughts and feelings are always around us. Though they give us the company we feel all alone sometimes....the reason for this loneliness arises through oua companions i.e, thoughts and feelings.
       Being alone is one of the saddest places on the earth to be, if you cant have one to share then it could be the greatest misery.but don't be scared we have one wonderful Friend inside us who can console at each n every moment. don't depend on some one else to make ua self ameliorate and to take care of you.Have a companion of your own self so that u Neva feel solitude.
        at times u'll surely agree with me ...

• you may be present physically but absent mentally.
• friends will be only friends as long as they need you.
• you will neva know whom to share on with.
•  the unseen tears are always unrecognized.
• the person can read ua eyes but not the heart.
• we wait for someone to pursue but in vain.
• we may hear the words but tey doesn't reach oua brain
• we feel like crying but we r forced to smile.
• we feel like running away from the thoughts that haunts us but we neva find a way.

each n every person goes through these stages but all you need to do is to b Strong to stand alone in worst situations. Njoy being with yourself wen u feel lik no one is there for u.the time which we spend with our self is helps us to discover the inner spirits. what ever we need to go on...

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anusha bura

6P's to approach your interview

It is extremely essential that you are well prepared for an interview. We have defined six easy pointers to a successful interview in ‘6 Ps’. These are broadly identified for simple recollection and are not exhaustive. However, every interview is a step towards getting closer to the ultimate goal, which is the offer letter. So do keep in mind the following while you are gearing up for an interview.

* Punctuality
* Presentation
* Preface
* Preparation
* Proficiency
* Phraseology

'P'unctuality is the first perception the interviewer gets about the candidate.

* Come to the venue a good fifteen minutes before the scheduled time.

* Take sometime off to go through your resume once again and also the Company profile.

'P'resentation of oneself is of prime importance though many may not be aware.

* As you may not be aware of the company’s dress code, wear smart formals in which you are comfortable.

* Do not use too strong a deodorant or perfume.

* Be well groomed. Look at yourself from head to toe and step out only if you feel totally satisfied. Stand straight, relaxed and with a slight smile.

'P'reface is crucial. So do be cordial while introducing yourself.

* Firstly, introduce yourself with your name and make sure your eyes meet that of the interviewer. This reflects your confidence. Shake a hand with the interviewer and be sure to be firm while doing so.

'P'reparation by equipping yourself with relevant information about the company in which you are attending the interview is crucial.

* Be specific, interviewers are generally looking out for statistics and revenue numbers. Make sure you are also well aware of your current company’s specifics as well. Having competitor information is a definite plus point and shows that your knowledge of the industry as a whole is well aligned.
* Don’t sound brash while showcasing your knowledge.

'P'roficiency at an interview is derived from practice or rehearsals before the interview.

* Try mock interviews with a friend or you could also use the mirror as a substitute.These rehearsals help instill a good amount of confidence and dramatically reduce the chances of you being nervous.

* Always know your strengths and weaknesses and be sure to back it up with adequate instances.

* Never bring out a situation where you have failed. Always speak of Be aware that your interviewer will be very interested to know about how well your action/reactions would have induced a situation or the outcome itself. Do not make up scenarios; you could be against a wall with a small slip.
challenges for which creative solutions were found.

'P'hraseology of the body or more commonly ‘body language’, plays an important role while facing interviews as much as verbal communication if not more. One’s body language must communicate attentiveness, enthusiasm and confidence.

* Make eye contact and periodically break away. Do not look at the floor.
* While sitting in your chair sit straight, leaning might convey lethargy. An upright posture exudes confidence.

* Always be positive about the way you deliver and the content of your conversation.
* Avoid using movements that takes the interviewer’s attention away from your face.

* Do not move your hands wildly or keep them behind your head or reclining on your chair.

The above mentioned ‘Ps’ are just a few pointers on how you could make better the interview experience better for yourself. It helps you proactively prepare yourself to make a positive impression upon your interviewer. However, there is no substitute for relevant experience, expertise and domain knowledge. So equip yourself for questions on these spheres which will ultimately determine the outcome of the interview.


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anusha bura

share your views n ideas to eradicate BLACKMONEY- eMAIL to bm-feedback@nic.in

The money that is earned and hoarded by dishonest and unfair means and kept in secret to evade taxes is called black-money. It becomes black because no taxes are paid on it. No taxes are paid on it because it is earned by dishonest and unfair means. Money turned to be black if taxes due thereon are evaded. The massive amount of black money in our country has created a parallel economy.

           Continuing generation and accumulation of black money poses a grave threat to our economy and is likely to threaten the very security and survival of the country. It is the source and at the same times cause of graft, corruption and the debasing of social and moral values. There are various factors responsible for the origin, existence and flourishing state of the parallel economy of black money. It originates with the combination of money and power. With black money any one can be bought or bribed, essential commodities can be corned and hoarded, healthy competition can be driven out and honest men and public servants can be blackmailed.

Dishonesty and corruption have become a normal way of life to set things done. This had led to continuing deterioration of moral standards. In recent years black money generation has been growing at a very fast rate in our country. So much so that it is difficult to isolate a single sector of economy or administration that moves without the use of black money

• the major aspect child labour is affecting the economy in the terms of black money, According to a report by an NGO, there were an estimated 6 lakhcrore is generated as black money through child labour every year in India.if this six crore child labourers are substituted with the six crore adults with an average floor wage of Rs 115 per day, one labourer would generate Rs 1,38,000 crore. child labourers in the country. If that was not all, approximately Rs 1.2

The government of INDIA has come forward and requesting the people of India to suggest the ways n means to avoid the black money.The email bm-feedback@nic.in is created on the server of the National Informatics Center. General public can immediately send their opinions. They can suggest any measures like imposing huge penalties and punishments and making penal provisions to deal with the issue of black money.Express your views in the form of a mail it may take a little of your valuable time but your suggestion may lay a path for change.

corruption in INDIA

The last two decades of the existence of independence, India has seen a steep upward trend in the graph of existing corruption. The media, the public, the variety of forums for discussions and debates for the higher intellingensia are all neck deep buried in highlighting the rampant corruption in every sphere. In this debate the rural folk are also not far behind.

Fighting corruption has emerged as a key development issue in India in recent years. More and more policymakers, businesses, and civil society organizations, have begun to confront the issue openly. At the same time the general level of understanding about corruption has risen markedly. Until recently, it was not uncommon to hear someone discuss anti-corruption strictly in law enforcement terms. By contrast, most people working in the field today acknowledge that public education and prevention are equally important. The field has also come to appreciate how critical the role of civil society is for effective and sustained reform .

• A 2005 study conducted by Transparency International in India found that more than 15% of Indians had first-hand experience of paying bribes or influence peddling to get jobs done in public offices successfully.

• In 2010 India was ranked 87th out of 178 countries in Transparency International's Corruption Perceptions Index.

•  India tops the list for black money in the entire world with almost US$1456 billion in Swiss banks (approximately USD 1.4 trillion) in the form of black money.
•  According to the data provided by the Swiss Banking Association Report (2006), India has more black money than the rest of the world combined.
•  Indian-owned Swiss bank account assets are worth 13 times the country’s national debt “The recent scams involving unimaginably big amounts of money, such as the 2G spectrum scam, are well known. It is estimated that more than trillion dollars are stashed away in foreign havens, while 80% of Indians earn less than 2$ per day and every second child is malnourished. Avoiding corruption is like killing ones own egos, but its alwayz left behind.think off and step forward as single to join many to avoid corruption.

AVOID CORRUPTION- EASY TO SAY HARD TO IMPLEMENT.., BUT MILES OF JOURNEY STARTS WITH A SINGLE STEP I TOOK MY STEP NOW ITS UA TURN U NEED NOT TO GO AND EDUCATE INSTEAD TAKE A DECISION NOT TO BE CORRUPTED.IF ANY ONE OF YOU CAN CHANGE THROUGH THIS THEN THE PURPOSE IS SERVED......

AS A PART OF THIS MY FRIEND N ME STARTED A NEW BLOG AGAINST THE CORRUPTION,TO SHARE OUA VIEWS DO VISIT http://fightagainstcorruptionsavethenation.blogspot.com

Strange letters!!!!!

These are some of the application & leave letters written by various personnel in English as they say, is really a funny language!!!

1.      A candidate's application " this has reference to your advertisement calling for a typist and an accountant-MALE r FEMALE".....as i am both for the past several years and i can handle booth, i am applying for the post.
2.     An employee applied for leave as follows : since i have to go to my village to sell my land along with my wife.please sanction me one week leave.
3.   Another employee applied for half day leave as follows:"since i have to go to cremation ground and i may not return, please grant me half day casual leave"
4. A friend of mine had written a leave letter to the headmaster:" as i am studying in this school am suffering from headache. I request you to leave me today"
5. A family Friend of ours told an incident of his friends letter' I am suffering from fever, please declare holiday to school"
6. another leave letter written to head master: as my headache is paining, please grant me leave for the day.
7. another leave letter written to administration dept: as my mother in law has expired and i am responsible for it,please grant me 10 days leave.

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anu

collection of my status on fb, each n every line has its own feel which connects to my llife...:)

I just thought to share all my status on fb here, few were written angrily n few to share my feelings and few to tell the people how much they mean to me. 

1.      i felt happpieee :) wen u wer beside me holding my hand at each n every moment, now ua memories are giving me ua presence...:):):) 
2. i may not give u the word bt i can strive to keep it till iam there..:):)
3.  in the beginning my world was with ful of colurs such that i didnt evn knwn the diff evry thing seemed to b colr of joy n happines n now each and every colour is so distinct having wide variations...:)
4.  at timz i hold on it doesn't mean that i'm lost...i hold my care in my ♥♥...waiting for ua eyes lo locate it,bt....its seen as tears....missing ...:( :(
5.  i thougt memories would console me for ma missin care+concern+friendshp+.......but memories do hurt a lot than missing...:(:(
6.  smetimz it feels lik d thngs are nva gone chang bt then you luk bak n realiz nva b the same..."MISSING"....most commonest part of life :(
7.  at timz we neva understand the lov n care ...aftr itz gone we search 4 it :):):)
8.   its betr to b away than being artificial to the one you like the most...:(:(
9.  PeOplE ThNk its holding on makes u stronger bt i feel its letting go gives a smile :):)
10.  at timz i move away y i donno....wen i ask t reason for ma self it says that jz to b mre wit u...:):)
11.  sMile N TeArz together R VrY rare ...if haPnS Ten Smile would be coz of t one who lovs u n Tears 4 t one whom u lov...
12. wen i waz far frm u , had lotz of time to spend on n shared a lot ..now that u r near the distance decreased n evn t time ...magical moments of ma lifzzz:(
13.  wen my eyes r wet fr u for t fst tim i didnt understood ...bt nw its hurting to accept thOz wet eyz forever...i neva want tat to happen..
14.  The BeSt MsG i Ever read ....If u feel lik all the doors r clzd fr us, ten remember that the closed doors are not locked alwayz...
15. i felt every smal thing was grt wen i shared wit u..n now its the time to see the biggest thing once to b a little one ...n both t biggest n littl thing r heard from you...i may regret the fst bt not the second...n u even...
16.  once t letters of ma name presented oua togetherness n willing t sam to be ever wiil that happen???? ...my DESTINY knows:(
17.  Is the mistake mine who longed for FRIENDSHIP r,is the mistake is of "frienship" which made us together or,is the mistake is of GOD who was t reason for oua friendship...or is t mistake of DESTINY which is playing this way .....too many options confusing mee.....unable to xplain:(:(:(
18.  heart full of tears and a state of felicity on t face could b the most hurting one!!!!
19.  words ,emotions feelings.........hard to hold n hard to express!!!! n even mre hard to know them...
20.  wen someONE doesnt know the true meaning....then GETTING or GIVING doesnt b to the fullest...WAT EVA that may be life even..

Small issues make huge difference & gives the utmost pain.....value ua love nt the ego's!!!

The untoward things at timz becomes the life's most beautiful memories and some create animosity,they make us inured and froward.we get into a despondent stage, we Neva know what to do??? this could be the biggest pain ever faced by the heart which expects care and concern....my best buddies facing the same situations being away from each other just for little reasons.
        well let me make u guys clear about the above said untoward situations happened in their lives. They were the world's best friends as i feel and it's true 'coz everyone think that theirs is the best relation in the world but something special here is its me who felt to have a relation like them n i do have such 'coz both of them r my friends. I feel great to have such friends yet they got parted i feel theirs is the best relation 'coz they Neva hated each other n hallowed their feelings.
      they Neva known that the care shown upon each other would become a reason to be away from each other and it happened unknowingly, destiny played with their feelings.
      The situations became abstruse for them, so they kept quite.each of them wanted to know the reason from other one but never tried to self question themselves.the person who shown the love and care kept himself away to give the exposition. As the nature's policy the one who expects the care n love inadvertently became belligerent . Many situations took place but they Neva got back.
      just think when u r ignored by the one whom u love so deep and need their shoulder to cry on and just they simply keep walking away from u, the pain can never be balanced isn't it.Irrespective of gender the pain remains, the one who said that I'll be with u forever and just left u behind can we bear??
  at last in the path of memories she needed the amity back and unfettered herself and approached, to shock she was parried.
     I JUST WANNA SAY THAT.....when ua broken relation gets back to you think that the lov which you hav given has the bud now...just feel it give rebirth. Just tell them if u have missed them, you don't need one 's permission to shower the blossoms of ua love. be magnanimous in your relations.Affection is not measured when both take care of each other, it is measured when one ignores and the other continues to care!!! have such relations in life neva MISS THEM....WE R NEVER COMPLETE WITHOUT RELATIONSHIPS. You may get the one who can care for you but they can never show the love as your lost one. Hallow your relations,try to be ebullient. try to know the untold feelings if u cant then ask for an exposition from your love.... :):):)
             NOW IT'S YOUR TURN, THINK ABOUT YOUR RELATIONS GET ON WITH THEM EXPRESS YOUR LOVE.....LIVE HAPPY. :)




ANU :)