Small issues make huge difference & gives the utmost pain.....value ua love nt the ego's!!!

The untoward things at timz becomes the life's most beautiful memories and some create animosity,they make us inured and froward.we get into a despondent stage, we Neva know what to do??? this could be the biggest pain ever faced by the heart which expects care and concern....my best buddies facing the same situations being away from each other just for little reasons.
        well let me make u guys clear about the above said untoward situations happened in their lives. They were the world's best friends as i feel and it's true 'coz everyone think that theirs is the best relation in the world but something special here is its me who felt to have a relation like them n i do have such 'coz both of them r my friends. I feel great to have such friends yet they got parted i feel theirs is the best relation 'coz they Neva hated each other n hallowed their feelings.
      they Neva known that the care shown upon each other would become a reason to be away from each other and it happened unknowingly, destiny played with their feelings.
      The situations became abstruse for them, so they kept quite.each of them wanted to know the reason from other one but never tried to self question themselves.the person who shown the love and care kept himself away to give the exposition. As the nature's policy the one who expects the care n love inadvertently became belligerent . Many situations took place but they Neva got back.
      just think when u r ignored by the one whom u love so deep and need their shoulder to cry on and just they simply keep walking away from u, the pain can never be balanced isn't it.Irrespective of gender the pain remains, the one who said that I'll be with u forever and just left u behind can we bear??
  at last in the path of memories she needed the amity back and unfettered herself and approached, to shock she was parried.
     I JUST WANNA SAY THAT.....when ua broken relation gets back to you think that the lov which you hav given has the bud now...just feel it give rebirth. Just tell them if u have missed them, you don't need one 's permission to shower the blossoms of ua love. be magnanimous in your relations.Affection is not measured when both take care of each other, it is measured when one ignores and the other continues to care!!! have such relations in life neva MISS THEM....WE R NEVER COMPLETE WITHOUT RELATIONSHIPS. You may get the one who can care for you but they can never show the love as your lost one. Hallow your relations,try to be ebullient. try to know the untold feelings if u cant then ask for an exposition from your love.... :):):)
             NOW IT'S YOUR TURN, THINK ABOUT YOUR RELATIONS GET ON WITH THEM EXPRESS YOUR LOVE.....LIVE HAPPY. :)




ANU :)

PAIN RELIEVER

when we experience physical pain, we reach out for painkillers and make our self ameliorate. But what if the case of emotional pain??? As a result of emotional pain many turn out for self destructive options or antidepressants or alcohol,but does these ways relieve the emotional pain completely. have you ever thought what could be the best pain reliever if its emotional pain???
    we all know the desperate cause behind the emotional pain its our own thought process. when we experience emotional pain we tend to become entangled in self defeating thoughts, then we all think only about the suffering not the key which relieves the suffering. with the pain we become pessimist and hopeless, then the pain becomes unbearable.
   everything is associated with the little thing brain in connection with the heart. Don't capitulate yourself to the pain just find the key to unlock it.from my experiences i got a key and reveling it here for my cronies,its just being free for everyone just simply can be termed as "compassion".
     Desist yourself from self destructive things,be amiable even to your foe. mistakes are done inadvertently just know that.everyone gets through the predicament stages, but the point is how we handle that situation.
    when we get involved in others pain our focus shifts from oneself to others and our sense of misery diminishes and we become sanguine. Here compassion serves as a pain reliever. what makes compassion really worthy is it alleviates our pain but also to lessen others pain.

anusha bura

priorities of life

Have you ever thought what life is?? before proceeding to the next very next line down here why don't you give a chance and try, just think define life in your own way.I guess its not that difficult , defining is pretty easier than following it according to ones own decision.we may have no.of answers & ways of defining the mighty but a small four letter word LIFE, but do we really define the way we lead it, instead of leading why cant we spell it as living but do we???? never na..!!1that's the magic which upholds the word life.

   As the thought process changes, the priorities of life gets changed. why don't we stick to our own ideas and thoughts which take birth at the first go. why do we always go with a better one or the best one, because we need something more, isn't it the main reason??? but are we ready to share it?? we are living the life of so many others fantasies.
when we come across a question what are your priorities in life? the very next min we are ready with the answers but how many of us are listing it truly without any hesitations. 50% 60%.......90%... i feel its none of us. It sounds strange when we come across such but when we sit on and think with the heart exact answers get unfold. The way we live our life's tells the truth about our priorities. when we can find the reason why our priorities are being changed to options then we can live the life not lead the life.

why do we step back to appreciate our foe???
why do we give reasons when the mistake is on our side and don't even try to listen to the words of the person who bears the pain of being misunderstood????
why the most loved thing at one time becomes the most hatred one at last???    
The answer to the above questions not only the above listed question but also the questions ringing in your mind while reading this  is just simply " change" . changing the behavior is not too hard if yo u really long for it. In today's world of rising pressure and constant change, let we change not completely but just for few minutes and see the change....so cronies now its ua turn to think on n feel the beautiful feel. The most important thing of life itself is life not the results of life.

ART OF LIVING

We enter the world with tears, our first pal's i.e, parents stay with us n stops the tears, evokes the smile, which continues till the adolescence, at some point of time the reason for the smile may get changed as prorities of life gets changes but do we think why this happens??? the very next answer ua heart gives is NO. When our thought process changes regarding the life the first question that arises in everyone's mind is what is life???., the question may be the same but the way of expressing differs, the way one treat ones life is totally different from others, this is nothing but the ART OF LIVING,the way in which you understand the life. Few say life gives everything except the things which make you feel happy at that moment, but just think when we desire and aspire high why can't it b ours???

         It will be ours but the way behind choosing the path matters, when we cant expect a light after the tunnel then the journey of life will not be intresting. The art of living is being positive gaining ability to win, to be unique.

       How many among us think and respond positively if a problem arises, we simply get into the race and think that my fate is playing instead if we can think positively that we are choosen for this problem by god becoz we are capable that's the way we differ from others. The person who can think differently is the one who can enjoy the life to the fullest. live the life dont lead it.