Wednesday, 30 January 2013

TRUST or TRUTH


Good Morning..!!

Life is a journey not a destination and at a corner of our life, we may face a particular situation whether to speak the truth or comfort our lovable one's with a lie,  just to hold the trust that they have developed towards us . Life is always at its best to throw typical situations which makes us more stronger than before.
"HURT is always needed to GROW"

Sometimes failure is needed to be successful. Life is all the mixture of of Unspeakable Secrets, Unreachable Goals, Untold Love and Irreversible Regrets. May be one can bear all the above but not the REGRET, it always pecks us from inside.

We may get into a situation, where, the truth we speak may hurt our beloved ones, the trust developed from years may breakdown, thinking to uphold the trust if we speak lie and that's where it melts us from inside for the entire life time . Heart may not let a word out of the lips but that becomes a flame inside which we need to bear for the entire life time with a fake smile on lips !!!

Just remember, Someone TRUST us because we are TRUTHFUL towards them.

On the other hand, what if we loose the trust of our loved ones..??
When someone trust us, they will surely make an attempt to understanding of what are we going through. Instead of comforting with lie. Break the silence with truth. We may see the pain in eyes of our beloved ones, but truthful effort always puts us into happiness. If they can't understand the situation then they are not meant for us.

With so many distractions and third party involvements, relationships have become tougher to maintain these days "TRUST HAS BECOME A LONG LOST WORD".

The doubts and fear of loosing our love, narrows us down from speaking truth, the other one sees this as possessiveness and gets angry. All these leads to a broken relationship. All you need is some patience, trust and being true. "If you want to gift something special just gift them your presence not the things".

People may not get all the things they wish too, but when you are pretty enough to get one such thing, hold them tight, just don't be dumb enough to let them go by surrendering to situations, fight back to get it..!!

"Just by speaking truth you may loose someone temporarily in few situations but never gain regret, which kills you daily."

DON'T MAKE YOUR SELF A PRISONER OF REGRET.

Life is always a balance between what we can and what we cannot, live a life between Effort and Surrender. It's difficult to WAIT and more difficult to REGRET. So, never give up on something easily.

Signing off today with lots of smiles.. :):)
Keep Smiling,  Keep Loving.

ANU loves you all DIL SE..!!

Tuesday, 6 November 2012

Show your love, instead of expressing!! Express hatred, instead of showing!!


Good Morning!!

 It’s been a pretty long time since I stroked my pen to share the feels. I was completely lost of what to share and what to express as thousands of thoughts were running through. I didn’t know whether I can share them or I need to bury them??
Some times we don’t know whether to laugh or cry upon particular situations, heart just becomes like a beach side view so pleasant to see but complicated to understand, while I was going through such feels I just felt this way….
  “I always felt that expressing is the best thing in the world because when we express our feels takes the form of actions, but as the time passed I’ve known that few things are to be shown and few are to be expressed, at times we feel that
  “We are let down by the most trusted ones and loved by the most unexpected one’s
     Few make us cry for things which we haven’t done, few ignore all our faults
     Few make us feel so nearer and the dearer ones make us feel we are no more a part of       their life
    Few leave us when we need them the most and few stick on even when we insist them to move on  ...”
What ever the world is mixture of people and one thing to be known is which hand to be held and which one to be left.
Everyone express their love, it’s not just enough what means a lot is the way you show it, little things are mattered a lot than the bigger ones, a small wish means a lot than a gift, on the other side people show their hatred, its not worth, express your hatred but do not show it. You may make people to forget of what you have spoken but not the way you made them feel. Best understand hope as “hold on pain ends” in case of difficulty. Don’t let your fears guard the heart and don’t make felicity as a lock so that no one can break through your shell. Just smile whole heartily it makes you feel better.
Show your love, instead of expressing!!
Express hatred, instead of showing!!
            Because people can forgive but not forget few things, don’t expect to be ones life instead be the favourite part of their life”

Anu loves you all dilse!!
Have great days !!
anusha bura

Thursday, 7 June 2012

Becoming a stranger...!!



Hello visitors!!

Have you ever experienced how it feels to wait for someone who can never be our’s. Just for a second, give a try with me. What if person is pushed to live with such a feel, what if he/she is left with no option other than getting rid of that person whom we like the most and also we cannot throw that feeling away from the heart.
   Remembering that one person each and every day, each second, trying to forget them is like wishing to have chilled water in a desert. At the beginning everybody seems to be special, but only few will remain special till the last sight and that one special person at times becomes the reason for tears in eyes, and those are the tears which are very special. It is hard to fly when something weighs us down, but then to we try to fly leaving everything behind just by hurting ourselves.
Unspoken words, things which are unexplained, trying to understand the silence of that one person, everything seems to be clumsy, we never understand what one feels at that point of time, we feel that the most known, the person who was very near to our heart all of a sudden becomes a stranger. The love for us in their eyes seems to be hatred for us. Our ego wins over love…little correction here, we do make our ego win to let them go, but in the layers of heart we always wish if any magic could happen and so we can stay with that person.
 We reach to a situation where we cannot share our pain with other except the one whom we try to get rid of; I always heard that the one who can hurt us is the only person who can make us smile after. But the truth is that that feeling is never explained it always dissolves in the rain which drops from the eyes. Our heart skips a beat when we heard about them from others, coz once we were too close!!
          May be my pen never stops if I go on write about this, we always get scared to be attached to others coz one day we may again break. So never give someone the satisfaction of watching you suffer. Don’t feel if you ever become a stranger to your loved ones, not only hatred but undefinable amount of love and liking also makes you a stranger. People need to understand that there is only one antidote to the above problem is that moving on!!!
Embrace your happiness!!
Anu loves you all dil se !!

Monday, 23 April 2012

Those wet eyes mean a lot


We entered to the beautiful world unaware of things to be done, to be achieved, to overcome hardships, to make our lives beautiful. we started our journey, met many people around but only few leave their footprints in our hearts.

Those were the days, we hate going to school and those wet eyes, the hated Monday mornings. At that time, we don’t know that one day we will cry to leave the place where we studied. See how life changes, we cry in childhood to go to a place where life starts and in adolescence, we cry to leave the place, from where we go to achieve our dreams.

Everyone has a word ‘someday’ in their dairy, even we used to write that someday will be great, some day will make everyone happy, someday will be big, successful, will be the reason for someone’s happiness, some day will be the possession to my girl/boy, also ‘time’ had the word some day. 'Some day will make you all cry', it succeeded, it made our eyes wet, our memories made us cry and till the date, they have the same power to make us cry and also to make us happy at the same time.

Getting back to the days, where everyone was new to us, unknowing each other. As, the time passed relations developed. Unforgettable memories were filled. College is the only place where you live as U' wish. Coming late to the class, Eating lunch boxes in the middle of the class, booking friend of ours while eating, imitating lecturers, fun and masti, lengthy assignments, last minute submissions, one day batting before exam, the only book we know-spectrum series, copying in the examination hall, texting by sitting in corners, yawing in class due to night talks, writing many letters to our HOD,  must attendance in canteen rather than classes, enjoying in events- electrosparx, Where can we do all these things except in our college.


Laughing by seeing others without any reason, late night discussions, where phone will be the biggest thing that ever needed, insufficient balance and batteries, even thought trying to contact. Searching for the contact of others by all the means, every silly thing is utmost cared and given importance, bunking the classes and finally one day we all leave the college.

‘FAREWELL’ that one evening gave us no. of memories, where our eyes shower by remembering them.

Doesn’t that wet eye mean a lot?? Undoubtedly answer is yes from every student.

When we swim in these thoughts one thing which always hits in our mind is “life mein bhi filmo jaise honge tho kitne kubsoorat honge..” but that’s life not a movie, where favourite song rings when we see our friends :) and favourite gal/boy :p

Does these days gonna come back..!! May be not forever, but at least relive with memories just for a while, little remembrance is needed; pick up your phone call everyone who crosses you heart. If you miss them just express it, who knows one day you may not get the chance to express. Don’t hold your love just express..!!

Value your relations, leading a mechanical life, achieving big things is not just enough, achieve little place for you in others heart. Leave your ego's if any and see your heart will fly with happiness. Be the reason for some ones happiness..:)


Miss you all..!! :(

Remembering and recollecting all the sweet memories of our college and FAREWELL after a year.