You can manage with a broken heart but not with a damaged one.

Does anything hit your mind at the first sight of this quotation??

     I had deep thoughts when i happened to read this one, there is a little truth hidden if we can probe into it, it gives the meaning of life and its importance.

    

    When we get hurt by our loved one then we say that "my heart is broken", it conveys that its just broken but not damaged, we can manage with it and gives the hope to live--**if  person is optimist.

   Managing things cant be equalized to enjoying them but they can be enjoyed if and only if given little importance to things which hurt us, when we know that a particular thing hurts a lot then why to hold on that, just let it go!!

    I know its not a simple task, but it is not impossible!!

We think that a broken heart gives the utmost pain but our little sense forgets that a damaged one hurts more, not only a single person but also all our loved ones. As said, if we have a strong determination a broken heart can be remodeled but if its a damaged heart which costs a life cant be brought back, life once lost will not be gained, a broken heart pains oneself but a life lost effects the euphoria of everyone.

   The one who can enjoy with a broken heart and manage things could be the most efficient person who can handle every worst situation of life. Are you such ?? If not TRY to be.....!!!

  You will never get a second chance to live the life, enjoy it, life hoo tho aise, move on!! cherish your life :)

anu loves you all dil se....

signing off for today with the memories of my friends "miss you all"

have a great day!!

Nostalgia

When
The school reopened in June,
And we settled in our new desks and
benches!

When we queued up in book depot,
And got our new books and notes!

When we wanted two Sundays and no Mondays,

Yet managed to line up daily for the
morning prayers.

We learnt writing with slates and pencils,
and

Progressed To fountain pens and ball

pens and then Micro tips!

When we began drawing with crayons
and evolved to

Color pencils and finally sketch pens!

When we started calculating

first with tables and then with

Clarke's tables and advanced to

Calculators and computers!

When we chased one another in the

corridors in Intervals, and returned to the
classrooms

Drenched in sweat!

When we had lunch in classrooms,
corridors,

Playgrounds,

under the trees and even in cycle sheds!

When all the colors in the world,

Decorated the campus on the Second
Saturdays!

When a single P.T. period in the week's
Time Table,

Was awaited more eagerly than the
monsoons!

When cricket was played with writing
pads as bats,

And Neckties and socks rolled into balls!

When few played

"kabadi" and "Kho-Kho" in scorching sun,

While others simply played

"book cricket" in the

Confines of classroom!

Of fights but no conspiracies,

Of Competitions but seldom jealousy!

When we used to

watch Live Cricket telecast,

In the opposite house in Intervals and
Lunch breaks!

When few rushed at 3:45 to

"Conquer" window seats in our School
bus!

While few others had "Big Fun",
"peppermint",

"kulfi", " milk ice !" and "sharbat !" at 4o
Clock!

Gone are the days

Of Sports Day,

and the annual School Day ,

And the one-month long

preparations for them.

Gone are the days

Of the stressful Quarterly,

Half Yearly and Annual Exams, And the
most

enjoyed holidays after them!

Gone are the days

Of tenth and twelfth standards, when

We Spent almost the whole year writing
revision tests!

We learnt,

We enjoyed,

We played,

We won,

We lost,

We laughed,

We cried,

We fought,

We thought.

With so much fun in them, so many
friends,

So much experience, all this and more!

Gone are the days

When we used

to talk for hours with our friends!

Now we don't have time to say a 'Hi'!

Gone are the days

When we played games on the road!

Now we

Code on the road with laptop!


Gone are the days

When we saw stars

Shining at Night!

Now we see stars when our code doesn't

Work!


Gone are the days

When we sat to chat with Friends on
grounds!

Now we chat in chat rooms.....!


Gone are the days

Where we

studied just to pass!

Now we study to save our job!

Gone are the days

Where we had no money in our pockets
and still fun filled on our hearts!!

Now we have the atm as well as credit
card but with an empty heart!!

Gone are the days

Where we shouted on the road!

Now we don't shout even at home

Gone are the days

Where we got lectures from all!

Now we give lectures to all... like the one
I'm doing now....!!

Gone are the days

But not the memories, which will be

Lingering in our hearts for ever and ever

and  Ever and ever and ever .....

Gone are the Days.... But still there are lot

more Days to come in our Life!!

NO MATTER HOW BUSY YOU ARE ,

DONT FORGET TO

LIVE THE LIFE THAT STILL

EXISTS....

collected n posted,

anu

stiching the heart...is it easy to do???

hello visitors!!! I am back again with the world's most commenest feeling "hurt" today, one may not say "no" for the question " have you ever been hurted??"
Hurt always accompanies love...as far i feel...here "love" could be anykind may be brotherly love, family love or may be friendly love...the intensity of feeling remains same in each case..let me little brief " the above lines mean that tha pain depends on the way our relationship is decorated.,the way we are attached to each other.

know how is it possible to say i love u after hurting

 

     As far we are together with one we like nothing creates gap but when we enter into the second phase of life then late meetings, delayed conversations hurts...but does it really hurts when we love someone truly?? think about it.

let me ask few questions which always relates the beautiful relations....first have answers in your mind later on you can judge about the relation .....but b sincere in answering let it be in your hear coz u need not to share ua answers ...


1. Have you ever waited for reunion after the break up?? atleast have you had any hope that you would be together one day??


2. Have you ever tried to know the truth/reason for your break up??


3. If you know the truth and are you willing to say that?? how does the situation changes if ans if yes??


4. Are you willing to learn from what happened earlier...then how would it effect your peace of mind??


Now lets make it more interesting by revealing the results......


Case 1:

   if your ans is "yes" then yours is a perfect relation with a little backdrop....thinking what could be the thing lacking...its nothing but ,u need to loose your "Ego". Instead of waiting y don't you approach.


  if "NO" - You feel the pain is more important than the person..but i say when you love someone truly he/she has the right to hurt you. think about it.


Case 2:

   if you try to know the reason...then no longer you will be away becoz..the "love' will be the first priority.


   if "no" then you are not dare enough to know that you may be wrong...you may be in such a state that you never wanna loose.....Remember winning and loosing is a part of game and achievements not in case of life and relationships.


Case 3:
   well when you know the truth and if you are wrong admit it n if ua partner is wrong then feel free to explain instead of complaining. Try this express ua missing and the way you long then it really works......**if tried whole heartedly


Case 4:
   if you are really willing to learn from the past...then i am sure yours will be the best relation and you can avoid conflicts....

  if "no" you never care for your mistakes and relations.

     Each and every question links to one another..be positive..have faith..express yourself..Pain is common in every relation but when pain given the top priority than what is the meaning of "being together" & "relationships". The person who loves you n cares fro you also has a right to hurt you...stich your heart and your love will erase the marks on the heart...
    Give a chance..but never take a chance to break ..instead make it!!!

with lots of love.....
anu signing off for today!!

Wishing you all a happy day & "happy birthday" to my best buddy ...