Real change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of changing

Hi blog readers…..

It’s been a long time since I met you all here with my writings, many of them were asking me the reason for not updating my blog. A new year is a fresh start for the new beginning again, oh!!  Let me wish you a very happy new year and here’s the first page of a 365 day diary for the year 2015. I've felt that, slowly I was losing  my care and passion I once had, Sometimes we struck in phase of life, we never know the exact reason for being calm, staying up to our self, the capability of imagining things suck. we never know why we take such a long gap even after knowing that it hurts us a lot, may be some times our heart doesn't listen to us. I read a quote recently which changed my heart and mind which were on holiday vacation. “Real change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of changing—Anthony Robbins” sometimes I wonder if life is all about living for a moment then again I think why do people struck

sometimes if this was true. At times we take a break and that doesn't mean that you are done with the things, it means you are trying to bounce back with a perfection defined in our own terms. At this phase, everyone tries to question you, they say that you've changed. Yes the change is common but people who question don’t know that we are just placing a comma not a period, which means a lot. At the corner of heart everything lies the same but someone needs to be special to notice that emotions are thirsty and will surely fly. Sometimes we feel that things are indistinguishable shades, but that doesn't mean we will not have a rainbow, tell yourself that this is just a test you are blessed to go through such stuff, take a break and be back but don’t let the break ruin you. Make a room for better things, you gotta pick yourself up because there isn't going to be a person there to do it for you.  Start the New Year with new resolutions, by now you might have known my resolution for the fresh year!! Keep smiling and let your actions instill happiness in others.
Anu loves you all dilse..!!!
signing off with lots of love..anusharun

what stays with us till we are alive..!!!??

Hi blog walkers..,

anu is here again with the same stuff in a new dimension. Walking along the sands of beach, water was hitting legs which was evoking different thoughts and feelings. Time was not moving from hour to hour but was moving form hour to moments. The whispers from the sea were making my heart swing. With all the emotions, my mind was tangling for an answer...

“what stays with us till we are alive??”

is it money..!!?

“oh no!!”..,it can never be...

is it love..!!?

“one day it may fade”

is it a secret..!!?

“someday it will no more be a secret”

is it time..!!?

“i wish I could had a stopper, but it never waits or stays with us..it moves on..!!”

I stood perplexed in-fact unable to answer a simple thought, which is now making me stroke the words. Quite a bit later I found the answer.., or may be I feel it as the apt in my own sense, that’s why I wanted to share and find new exciting answers.

After I took some series of steps form where I was standing, I’ve seen two kids exchanging gifts and few couples were taking their photographs along with their kids, that's the moment I felt that I found the answer for the question....awe..wait a second..

let me tell you first...!! yes you might be guessing it right, it is none other than “memories”.

People move away from our life...some times we may not see them directly but they live in our memories, which would be a greatest asset till we are alive.

Memories are the ones which we never wanna loose. Gifting,sharing, loving, being compassionate..it's all about creating memories. Things may end, but memories last forever if you wish too.

As the coin always has two sides, on the other side they can even pain you but depends on the way we handle them, remember what makes you Happy, just delete the ones which bothers you. Embrace the moments of happiness in life.

Life is all about making yourself happy..!!!

anu loves you all dilse..!!
anusharun 

Happiness is a decision...!!!

Anu is back again after a pretty long time. I wish i could rotate the clock back, but it's not possible; so am just inking to have quick reminiscence of the moments and experiences. I always thought that smiling will be easier than explaining things, staying quite will always be easier than complaining things, but i was rebutted with the walk of life. "sometimes you need to affirm to make yourself peachy because all that we are is the result of what we have thought and what we think." the mind is everything which guides. I wish my heart could have a map to travel with guidance of mind.This thought might be am funny but i do feel it at times. life dejects  at times but we must embrace it with compassion, which is the greatest art to master on.

                    

                       we fall, we rise....

                       we learn, we live....

                       we laugh, we cry....

                       we get hurt but we will be alive....

                       we are not perfect...

                       we are 'humans'

Everyone makes mistakes in life, but it shouldn't mean that they should pay it for the rest of their lives. At times bad choices happen but it doesn't mean that people are bad, it means that they are normal people with no intentions. Regrets and memories should be the sweet learning but not the haunting ones in life. We shouldn't hate people for their mistakes, instead get disappointed which can be erased with the winds of love and compassion.  If a single mistake is worthy enough to hate someone for a lifetime then probably world wouldn't have smiles left. Make people happy, world needs it. Accept the imperfections. When life changes the rules take some space to fit in. shielding your heart all the way with hate will make you feel bitter and others too, instead open the doors of love, be compassionate.

Share your feeling, give a chance to others who made you feel bitter to wash it off with out any traces which is the perfect definition of true love. Don't let the nights fill with worries and eyes with tears. let the wounds of ignorance be vanished with antidote called love. Accepting that it was never meant to be yours and it will never be yours is old thing, everything is in your hands, OPEN UP!! share the warmth, feel the power of giving a second chance for a new start. Illuminate the rise of hope with second chance, may be someone on the other end is seriously waiting to have a second chance to continue first impression.

life is always a blend of feelings so make your cup of coffee special with love and compassion. Never mask your feelings, remember expressing is needed to crave happiness, making mistakes is better than faking perfections. please don't let someone hide their pain in smile, convert the pain into smiles. Special connections always exist, hold them up!!

Never let others feel that memories are their worst enemies, remember you are always a decision away to spread happiness. Single decision can bring a lot of change.

Signing off for today with Lots of love..!!!

anu loves you all DIL SE....!!

Defined Destinies, Confused Hearts!!!

Life has become like a downward spiral for me from past few months as long as i remember. Solitude was the only asset of mine and also the one in my thoughts, lost in those thoughts of what to explain and what not, heart was waiting for the emotional revelations. For all the confusions that were running in mind, my blog has given me the best answer that is to write upon and express, which may lead to my destiny.

Restricted writings are always painful; let me not put myself in the pain of that, so started scribbling my thoughts, as i feel that writing is the only tool which I have to win the hearts.

We happen to meet many people in our path, few are just the passing clouds, few shower rains in our lives for a period of time, but only few will be entwined with us, such kind of people are the defined destinies of our lives. Few become the missed paths of life, and few get connected to you in other corners of the path that you have chosen. It's the time where you gonna decide which in turn twinkles your path apart from the hurdles, in reaching a defined destiny.

After all to achieve the above stated things, a simple initiation is needed, That’s none other than my favorite belief "expressing yourself" which leads to your destiny. We may feel that we were stupid to wave a goodbye, but sometimes a goodbye silently says that "I will wait for you to be back again". We may face the issues but that all depends on the way we solve it and the way we sort it out.

If you can find the sunshine which heals you, just stick to them, blossom in the joy of love.

Come what may but expressing is always needed. If we can't open up then the feelings are always buried under sands of felicity. It's not about getting to know about each other it's all about made for each other, Just begin the start with a word, and we can see the best thing "Being Together" with enamored hearts. Try to know the language of hearts you will be surely cherished in care. 

Dedicated to all the ones who are confused for their defined destinies and their hearts!!!

Hope people will find answers for the their hidden questions.

ANU loves you all dilse!!!

Keep smiling :) :) :)

Hope best, miracles do happen….

complicated questions have simple answers !!

Hello visitors,

A warm welcome to the place of hearts. Awe the line itself makes me feel like heaven, isn’t it? Looking out from a small window out, the weather was quite splendorous, tiny droplets falling down a hot coffee in my right hand and my left hand was busy playing with the curls that were dancing upon the face, mind was completely filled of thoughts of what to express and what to pen down, fears were guarding me so firmly and I was lacking of the idea to express. People say that when a word written with all the heart and soul it surely touches others, and yes I do believe in that and was waiting for a perfect feel to express. Left in the thoughts my phone vibration brought me back to the mechanical world from the dream land where I was; and that mechanical world gave me the perfect feel which is making me to write this. I received a message from my friend that

“Whatever you do,

Wherever you go

You’ll always need a sweet heart to care for you

Without which life has no meaning”

These lines gave me answers to no: of questions which were running in my mind. At some corner of life we always feel that something is missing out of life, how much ever we try to know but in vain it’s always left unanswered. You will have everything out there but a little thing misses which makes you feel depressed, think again may be this is your answer for missing. Needs may be different but answer is only one, may be the toughest question has a simplest answer. Feel a little, show it a little be compassionate. How much ever you may be depressed or undergo pain, if you can have a caring heart at the end you will never feel the real meaning of pain. Life will always be beautiful if one can understand you irrespective of your possessions. Find the right one, wait for your time and if you cant wait then change it let it happen!! open up your heart, raise the voice of heart,may be its waiting for the articulation.

Expressing may lead you to your destiny!! So keep loving and so smile !!

Anu loves you all dilse :)