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A very warm evening buddies!!!

        I wish you all a very happy friendship day....

Many among us try to define the friendship and its meaning but..can we define it completely., well my answer would be NO 'coz we never know when it touches our soul, when does our hearts experience the wings in their companion..it's all the divine thing and the miracle that happens in our life.

      Few relations leave memories in the name of friendship which silently mean that at every moment of life am with you in ur heart..memories are the way of holding onto the things we love n the things which we never want to loose.we need not share everything and stay with them forever to b the world's greatest friends even a simple smile and the feeling of missing them in the garden of hearts filled with roses can nevr be weighed. things changes ....time slips away..people forget...but remember the belongingness nevr ends a single second is enough to change the rhythm of true heart.

 Never say hai....if you really mean goodbye....

when u mean forever...then atleast try to be...

Never hod the hand if you gonna leave it someday rather hold the relation with memories...

Though i live apart from you all.....always remember you hold a piece of my heart that sounds ua name in the form of heart beat.For all that you were and for all that you will be..i THANK all of u my dear pals. The wet eyes and the tissue in my hands simply say I MISS YOU ALL IDIOTS...

    & finally never hate anyone....love them n also the mistakes....never be too busy with life...coz the person unseen by you standing behind you for ur arms to surround and waiting for your words "I NEED YOU"..WILL YOU SAY THE SAME....????

regards
 

the unwrapped gift of my life...

Good Evening !!!

Today's post is a outcome of the experience. I thought to share with you at this cool time when the droplets falling through the glass of my windows, which evoked the previous reminiscences.

Everyone will be blissed when we receive gifts from our near & dear, few of those touches our hearts and become the pridest possessions, what ever it could be either the person or the things, they are just the collection of memories. Let me tell you about the gift which I've received from the MIGHTY and do you know!! the gift was friendship wrapped with broken trust, broken hearts, misunderstandings, hatred etc..which melted the the beautiful gift "friendship" inside. I was lucky to know the gift inside the box was friendship but i am really unlucky at the same time 'coz i was blind to know that it was packed differently, May be the excitement & the happiness of getting the gift made me blind. To gain that friendship i lost myself and in the process of gaining that i learnt "life".

when i started wrapping the biggest gift that changed my life, my well wishers told not to open it., but i haven't listened to them, i thought i could unwrap it with my love , care, concerns but i was defeated by hatred, gossips & ego's ....but this was the only defeat which made me happy. The simple conversation between two people just for fun or to pass time becomes a curse to others. i always remember the words of my teacher " low people gossip and talk about the people ". Gossipping may be fun to the one who gossip but it effects in such a way that one's heart completely breaks and we can never get back the lost trust and belief, even the showering eyes cant change the situation. The truth can never be hidden & the lie comforted with love cant hide too longer, same thing happened with me. How can we gossip about the one who are our world. The first and foremost thing is to have is trust and belief, if that is melted iam sure we can gain it again.

The pain when we hear that our near ones gossip about us can never be explained. I tried to unwrap the beautiful gift by then i’ve knowm that the friendship inside was melted and can never made complete. I am defeated but that defeat taught me the life, relationships and even the strength of gosspis and ego and their efffects.

Whats the use of heart

when our heart gets broken

Whats the point of feeling                                  

when some one hates you for that

Whats the use of speech

if you can never speak to me

Whats the use of friendship

when someone doesnt deserve it.

will life be the same forever???

A few minutes of silence will be unbearable when we are happy at the same time chill outs, laughter irritates us at the time of distress, only eyes speak at that moment rather than the words. when we question " will life be the same forever??" the ans we hear is no...,in case of a person who knows the importance of darkness and also the light together....& we may hear the ans "yes" who cant enjoy the flavour of hard times....remember the old saying "karma" always lies at the tip of the mouth of the persons who say that, "life will be same forever".
       Changes are quite common in life at times take they place in our life such that the outcome of such situations makes us distress whatever that could be may be career, relationships, breakup's and also the winnings. u might be wondering how does winnings makes us distress well winning doesn't mean achieving the things dreamt by others for you, its stepping forward towards the goal which we feel.
    At times empty pockets bothers a lot..who knows those empty pockets may turn heavy. The hopeless walks may change into the walk which shows the path for hundred of people. Empty wallet turns to be full with cards and seven figured salary in oua hands per month. The lonely walks in the race of achieving goals are always the most cherished moments of life.
    The watering mouths wen u pass by the MCDONALD'S ...but cannot enjoy that fun just bcoz of empty pockets may change to the time wen we celebrate together with all the fun and happiness.The laughter which irritates becomes the most lovable asset. to achieve all these being quite and feeling for things that had happened in past doesn't change the state its hard work and passion works out. Not only being in the race is enough, desire to touch the extreme point is all needed.
  My fav quote "if we cant expect the ray of light after the tunnel then the journey of life will not be interesting". Hope is all needed not only hope we need to be passionate we may b late in achieving the goals but never get tried in working for that. Tough times never last but tough people do.
  Nobody is a total failure if they dare to try to do something worthwhile and remember its impossible to fail totally if we dare to try.

will you be my friend again ???

I am sorry that i hurt you.....you were my best friend

I still cant believe that i missed you.

I owe an apology and n i feel this is the right time..

I just wanna say sorry but...hurting you was my crime

I never wanted to let you go..but it happened

I feel i was crazy at the time i said i don't need you

I didn't had the intention of hurting you...

But all the things I though went wrong..

Though my heart was telling me...

But my mind didn't..

A deep incomplete feeling hits my heart wen i am alone

I want you back my dear..!!!

I just wanna let you know that 

I still love you and your friendship

           All i need is another chance for life time happiness will you???

anusha

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hmm...u might be eager to know what actually changes...here it is...

nevr break ua promises

       finally after the dialogue goodbye....or just before the time u spell it...little changes takes place in life, some one else enter into our life..knowingly or unknowingly we keep sharing everything with the new friend, the intention behind ova sharing might be to get back the one we are loosing, but we will be unaware that we are choosing the untrodden way.

       meanwhile the fight for real life begins, career plays a crucial role..all other things even the relations seems to be so simple and less important, it becomes easy to let go...not by everyone but max of the people do the same.

      During the first few days and weeks we exchange our words and take promises to be together forever..what ever may happen you decide to stay but when the actual time comes are we with our word..are we with the same feeling when we gave a promise?? why does the one we like the most becomes the most hatred one ??

    why does we forget the things shared and the care concern shown..and just simply remember the small hurting and pains. Is the pain more important than a person???

  why does the one who understands our silence in the beginning misunderstands our silence by the end...one who waits for our buzz's...simply says "cant you wait for few mins" simple things but weighs a lot as its all the matter of heart.

   Instead of ameliorating we just say " y don't u understand"...,just think instead of saying thz if we can tell the situation n share everything will go cool.the words "i like you" gets transformed to "i hate you"..but i don't understand one thing when we like someone so deeply..then what could be there to hate....r we liking them partially ??

   the reasons may be many but we can never get the comfort n joyness of being together...friend or friendship doesn't change..its the thoughts that changes.., even in the constant changing the one who can maintain the perfect relation can achieve high place in others heart. some times in life we find a special friend, someone who changes our life just by being a part of our life..someone who makes our smile changes to laugh ...always have one such..don't bend for situations..tey come and go ..but friends do stay forever.

its time for me to sign off now...goodnight buddies :)

regards,

anusha